Esteemed political journalist, father and grandfather and a devoted Kerryman.
“He taught me how to ride a bike and encouraged this passion in me throughout his life.”
Elizabeth Williams
James' sister
"Sarah used to adore the sea, some of my favourite memories were those long days at the beach."
Claire Smith
Sarah’s best friend
“Ever the perfect host. Our glasses were never empty. You'll be sorely missed.”
Jacob Johnson
Julie's Friend
Funeral Plans
Join the O’Connor family to celebrate the life of Caroline.
Mon 15 April, 5pm
Loughry & Sons Funeral Home, Rathfarnam
Sarah used to adore the sea, some of my favourite memories of Sarah are on the sand
Claire Coffey
Sarah’s best friend

Navigating death.

Celebrating life.

A place to honour a loved one’s life through words, photographs and video memories; a space to find strength in grief through helpful resources; and a service to support you with plans and ceremonies. 

take time to remember

Reminisce and share nostalgic moments.

Beloved teacher, mother, and grandmother, remembered for her compassion and dedication to her family and students.
Aoife Gallagher
19th September 2024
Cillian O'Dowd
23rd November 2024
Eoin Callaghan
11th January 2025
genuine gestures

In times of need, show them you care.

Thoughtful things and heartfelt deeds
Send a handwritten note
Say it with flowers
Light a candle
Donate to a charity
FUNERAL PLANNING

Create and search death notices, inform friends and family of funeral arrangements and gather RSVPs for better planning.

Reminder
Paul's memorial mass will be held on the 9th of November.
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A LASTING MEMORIAL

Somewhere to revisit fond memories anytime.

Personalisation

Add photographs and videos

Reminiscing

Share personal memories

Connection

Invite family and friends to contribute

Gifts for Grievers

What flowers should I send?

A digital memorial that honours the life of a loved one

Helping people find Solace in death

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James O Sullivan
Sinéad McDonagh reflects on her late friend, James
I will always remember James’ dedication to his community and the warmth he brought to every conversation. He had a quiet strength and a deep love for his family, always putting Mary, Paul, and Robert first. Whether golfing, sailing, or walking his dogs, he found joy in simple moments. His passion for Kerry and commitment to making a difference will never be forgotten. I’ll always cherish our long talks and shared laughter.
James O Sullivan
Sinéad McDonagh reflects on her late friend, James
I will always remember James’ dedication to his community and the warmth he brought to every conversation. He had a quiet strength and a deep love for his family, always putting Mary, Paul, and Robert first. Whether golfing, sailing, or walking his dogs, he found joy in simple moments. His passion for Kerry and commitment to making a difference will never be forgotten. I’ll always cherish our long talks and shared laughter.
James O Sullivan
Sinéad McDonagh reflects on her late friend, James
I will always remember James’ dedication to his community and the warmth he brought to every conversation. He had a quiet strength and a deep love for his family, always putting Mary, Paul, and Robert first. Whether golfing, sailing, or walking his dogs, he found joy in simple moments. His passion for Kerry and commitment to making a difference will never be forgotten. I’ll always cherish our long talks and shared laughter.
Sinéad McDonagh reflects on her late friend, James

During the months I stayed in school (at my parents' request) I was tired, prickly, tender, near tears, and physically weak. I heard myself talking about mom’s sickness as ongoing, but felt she was already gone, dying. I didn’t yet know about anticipatory grief. I didn't know what I was doing or what I should do....

Frequently asked questions

What is The Solace?

The Solace is a place to remember and honour a loved one who has died by sharing memories and sending gestures of support to those bereaving. It is a digital legacy that can be visited anytime. Funeral directors can use The Solace to announce a death, share funeral details and collect RSVPs in one place.

Who is The Solace for?

The Solace is for anyone experiencing the loss of someone. You can visit a memorial page, leave a condolence or confirm your funeral attendance. Registered members are able to share memories, upload photos and receive notifications about important dates and events.

What is a memorial?

A memorial is a dedicated page on The Solace that honours your loved one in a personalised way when they die. It includes their life story, photos and messages from family and friends. You can revisit this lasting tribute forever.

Why create a memorial?

Creating a memorial provides you with a place to honour your loved one's life, communicate funeral plans, and gather photos, memories and condolences in one central location. It serves as a sanctuary where grief meets grace, lives are celebrated and shared healing can occur.

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